-- excerpt. Who should read this book?
Although Vance has written this book for counsellors, it is important to note that he has adopted a broad definition of what constitutes counselling, making his work applicable to a variety of practitioners who attend to those experiencing life difficulties. Professionals such as nurses, clinical and counselling psychologists, child and youth care practitioners, social workers, and mediators all could use the ideas about relationship that Vance so clearly articulates.
The notion of conceptual mapping that he describes in detail in this book, for example, could easily be adapted to workplace conflicts so that employees could understand better the life-space of their co-workers. Such deepened understandings could foster the negotiation of new, more harmonious relationships once the whole person, not just the workplace behaviours, is known.
Although this kind of strategy requires a high level of trust, the possibilities for modified conceptual mapping activities between persons could be adapted to different contexts. Similarly, in health care settings, nurse practitioners could use conceptual life-space mapping to understand the patient's meaning of an illness within the overall context of his or her life.
What Vance emphasizes is that when principles of compassion, cultural attunement, respect, authenticity and disciplined mindfulness are incorporated into one's own counselling practice, whether when working one-to-one, in groups, or in community development, it is possible to create one's own activities for those people with whom one works. Vance always avoided using rigid counselling techniques and methods in his own practice and cautioned others to avoid contrived and inauthentic ways of relating. Beyond anything else, he believed that counselling activities must have integrity. Both counsellor and client need to agree that what is being proposed makes sense and is a useful thing to do in light of the issue at hand.
Vance strongly believed that the most precious gift a person can give, whether in a counselling relationship or everyday life, is the gift of presence. Such a gift can only be provided by showing a human face to another, not a remote, professional mask. Professionals, Vance believed, should never alienate themselves from the people they hope to serve. Deep and profound connections occur when people are willing to be known with all their vulnerabilities, fears, and concerns, as well as their hopes and dreams.
Vance's intention for this book is to speak openly and honestly to practitioners who engage in this difficult but rewarding work with others.